Everything belongs somewhere. As soon as you place it anywhere else and don’t put it back, it looks out of place and that is when things start to look like a mess. If we tend a practice to keep everything back in place after use, we will not need hours to tidy our homes. Life is no different. As soon as –during our moment of weakness — we misplace an emotion, misbehave with someone, hurt someone’s pride or feelings, we must apologize immediately. We must hug them, look into their eyes and request forgiveness. If we don’t do so, if we are lousy with our emotions in our relationships, things start getting messed up. Immediate apology — and hence appreciation of someone’s hurt and pain — can save us a lot of time, energy and emotional damage.